I'm post-menopausal and feel weaker and softer every year. Is it too late to build muscle?
No, it isn't too late. Your body can still get stronger after menopause, and we coach women 35 through perimenopause and beyond. What tends to work: strength training that starts where you are and builds week to week, enough food and protein to build on, real recovery, and a coach who adjusts the plan as you go.
Weaker and softer every year can feel like the deal you're stuck with.
Here's the thing.
That can change. At 55, at 62, at whatever age you're reading this.
First, when should you check with your doctor?
We coach. We don't diagnose or treat.
Talk to your doctor before you start a new strength program if you have:
- Osteoporosis or low bone density. Ask what you're cleared to do.
- A heart condition, or another health condition you're being treated for.
- A recent injury or surgery, or pain that's getting worse.
- New symptoms nobody has looked at yet.
Then bring what they tell you to us.
Your coach builds the plan within what your doctor has cleared.
Why do you feel weaker and softer every year?
A lot of the women we talk to say the same thing. They used to feel strong. Now they just feel soft.
Some of that is your body changing. After menopause, a lot of women notice that strength and muscle tone are harder to hold on to than they used to be.
In our experience, the bigger piece is usually how you've been training and eating:
- Light weights and lots of reps. Plenty of effort, very little reason for your muscles to change.
- Walking and cardio only. Keep walking. On their own, though, they don't give your muscles much reason to grow.
- Eating less and less. It's hard to build anything when your body is short on fuel.
- Stopping after an injury, and never quite starting again.
Sound familiar?
Every one of those is fixable.
Is it too late to build muscle at 60?
No.
"Am I too old?" is one of the questions we hear on calls from women in their late 50s and 60s.
Our program is built for women 35+, in perimenopause and past it.
Chris puts it simply: "Muscle is metabolism."
And Chris explains it like this: resistance training gives you the most bang for your buck, for your metabolism, your muscle and your bones.
If you have osteoporosis or low bone density, that's a conversation for your doctor first. Then your coach builds around what they've said.
Where do you start if you feel weak right now?
Right where you are.
Hey ladies, listen up. You don't have to be strong to start.
- Every move has easier options. In every workout, Chris coaches easier and harder versions of each move. You pick the one your body is ready for today.
- Form first, then load. You learn the movement, then add weight once it feels solid.
- It builds week to week. That's progressive overload, and it's what gives your muscles a reason to change.
- Your coach adjusts the plan. She's a PN-certified coach, a woman over 40 who has done the Reset herself. She checks in every week, and you can reach her between check-ins.
The workouts are follow-along videos you do at home, about 50 minutes each. In the Reset, that's 5 a week: 3 strength and 2 conditioning, with one of those optional.
All you need is a set of dumbbells, a Swiss ball and some fabric bands.
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What about food?
Building muscle takes fuel.
A lot of the women we coach have been eating less and less for years. In our experience, that's one of the biggest things holding them back.
So the plan gives you:
- Protein at every meal.
- Enough food to train on.
- Real food you actually enjoy. No calorie counting, no food scales, no macro tracking.
The first 14 days are lower carb and higher protein, with a short break from alcohol, dairy, gluten and processed sugar.
Then foods come back.
Can you still lose weight after menopause?
Most women come to us wanting to lose weight. What they actually want to lose is fat.
That's a change in body composition. When you're building muscle and losing fat at the same time, the scale can be slow to move. Your clothes, your energy and how strong you feel usually tell you first.
We've helped 1,000+ women lose 10 to 20 lbs of fat in 8 weeks.
After the 8 weeks, many women continue into Metabolic Mastery, our ongoing coaching. It moves into build phases focused on strength and muscle, then back into fat loss phases.
If most of the change is showing up around your middle, here's why belly fat shows up when nothing changed.
What if you're on HRT, or not?
HRT is a decision between you and your doctor. We never recommend starting, stopping or changing it.
We coach women on it and women off it.
The foundation is the same for both: strength, protein, enough food and recovery.
On HRT and still gaining? Read what you might be missing.
What does getting stronger actually give you?
This is the part I get excited about.
When we ask women what they want, it's rarely a number on a scale. It's things like:
- Carrying the groceries in one trip.
- Getting up off the floor without thinking about it.
- Hiking, pickleball and travelling without sitting anything out.
- Keeping up with the grandkids, and picking them up.
A lot of the women we coach tell us they want to be strong and able in their 70s, still doing the things they enjoy.
That's a goal worth training for, right?
Marianne on getting your strength back
I sat down with Marianne, a mom of three, to talk about why so many women over 40 feel drained, and three fixes that help: strength training, more protein and staying hydrated.
Ready to get stronger?
Feeling weaker every year doesn't have to be your story.
Start with the short video on our homepage at fortyfwd.com. It walks through why your body stopped responding after 40 and the method we use to change that.
If it sounds like you, apply for a call with Chris.
He reads every application himself. On the call, he'll ask where you're starting from and what your body has been through, and tell you straight whether the program is the right fit. If it is, he walks you through the investment then, once you both know it's a fit.
Your strongest years can still be ahead of you.
Let's go find them.
Frequently asked questions
Can you build muscle after menopause?
Yes. In our experience, women past menopause still get stronger with progressive strength training, enough food and protein, and real recovery. Start with the easier options and build week to week.
Am I too old to start strength training at 60?
No. Our program is built for women 35+, in perimenopause and past it, and every move has easier options. If you have a health condition, check with your doctor first and tell your coach what they've cleared.
Can I lose weight after menopause with strength training?
Yes. We coach fat loss through strength training, enough food and recovery, without calorie counting. The scale can be slow when you're building muscle, so watch your clothes and your strength too.
Can I strength train if I have osteoporosis?
Talk to your doctor first and ask what you're cleared to do. Then tell your coach, and she'll build your plan within it, starting with the easier options.
Do I need a gym to build muscle after 50?
No. Our workouts are follow-along videos you do at home. All you need is a set of dumbbells, a Swiss ball and some fabric bands.
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