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Straight answers to the questions women 35+ ask us most. Perimenopause, belly fat, strength, food and energy. Every question here came from a real conversation with a woman just like you.

Ashley, a Forty Forward client, on perimenopause and what changed

Do I have to quit my fitness classes or my trainer to do strength training?

No, you don't have to quit. A lot of the women we coach keep a class they look forward to, or their trainer. What we ask is that a planned strength program becomes the base of your week. Your coach...

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Sari, a Forty Forward client, on building strength after 40

Should I start now, or wait until after the holidays (or my trip)?

Sometimes waiting is the right call. If your season is truly full, pick a start date you can protect. If the holidays or a trip are the only thing in the way, starting first tends to work better th...

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Chris Smits and Elle Daftarian, co-founders of Forty Forward

What equipment do I need to strength train at home, and can I do the workouts at my gym instead?

Less than you think. Our at-home workouts use a set of dumbbells, a Swiss ball and some fabric bands, plus your own bodyweight. No bench, no machines, no home gym required. And yes, you can do the ...

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Franny, a Forty Forward client, on eating more and losing fat

I have a vacation coming up. How do I not undo all my progress while I travel?

Keep four things going while you're away: protein at most meals, some movement every day, sleep and water. Tell your coach before you leave so she can adjust your plan, then enjoy the trip. In our ...

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Sarah, a Forty Forward client, on what coaching was really worth

Why isn't Forty Forward cheap, and what do I actually get?

Because what you're paying for is people. A dedicated coach who builds your plan around your life and adjusts it every week. Chris, who reads your application and talks with you himself. Workouts a...

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Marianne, a Forty Forward client, on energy in her 40s

Should I take creatine in perimenopause?

Creatine can be a helpful, optional add-on for women who are already strength training and eating enough protein. It's one of the supplements we get asked about most. It never replaces your trainin...

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Elle Daftarian and Curtis Gillespie Sayers on hormones in perimenopause

I'm on Ozempic or Zepbound. How do I keep my muscle and not end up with "Ozempic face"?

Give your body a reason to keep its muscle, and enough food to keep it with. That means protein first at every meal, even when nothing sounds good, strength training that gets a little harder over ...

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Chris Smits and Elle Daftarian, co-founders of Forty Forward

How many days a week should a woman over 40 strength train, and how long should workouts be?

Here's how we think about it: start with two or three strength workouts a week, about 50 minutes each. Strength comes first. Once you're at three, add one or two conditioning workouts, and walk as ...

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Elle Daftarian with Erin, a mom of two, on putting herself first

How much time does this actually take? I'm already stretched thin and I travel.

About 4 to 5 hours a week, all in. That covers five follow-along workouts at home of about 50 minutes each (one of them optional), a bit of food prep and one weekly check-in with your coach. No gym...

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Ashley, a Forty Forward client, on perimenopause and what changed

Everyone says I look thin but I feel soft. What is "skinny fat" and how do I fix it?

"Skinny fat" is the everyday name for having a normal or small body size with low muscle and higher body fat. You look thin in clothes and feel soft out of them. In our experience, the fix is build...

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Elle Daftarian with Michelle, a busy mom and business owner

Does working out at night wreck my sleep and fat loss?

It can, for some women. In our experience, a hard workout late at night tends to make it harder to wind down, and sleep matters a lot for fat loss. So we nudge women toward earlier workouts when li...

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Elle Daftarian with Michelle, a busy mom and business owner

Is stress and cortisol why I can't lose belly fat?

Stress can play a part, but it rarely acts alone. In our experience, when stress, short sleep and under-eating pile up, fat loss gets a lot harder, especially around the middle. What helps is calme...

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